Dating tips for a lasting relationship

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Listen to your gut.

Arguably the most important rule. How many times have you been out with a foxy new someone only to have them do or say something that made your stomach lurch, and not in an I wanna-make-babies-with-them-right-now kind of way.

Gut, here is the sixth sense. This is when the supernatural tells you relax it is okay or run for the hills!
Unfortunately, most men are unable to reason with their gut feeling once they are sufficiently excited by the prospects of the night. Gentlemen, this is one challenge we must learn to deal with.

Actions speak louder than words

Surely, who can ignore this time-tested sagacious wisdom? During the course of our dating life, one will most likely find themselves on a date with someone whose actions speak louder than their words.
Maybe they are attentive and chivalrous to you, but you treat the waitress or the bar man like yesterday’s manure. Please, pay attention to such red flags.

And if they are too many, remember this is not an Arsenal FC or Manchester United FC match to have red flags waved on the retraces. Run baby run!

Don’t play games

Successful singles know that what goes around comes around. They also know the importance of being honest and well intentioned with the people you date. As a successful single (is there such a thing or they are just players? Anyway...) you owe it to yourself and the people you date not to play games.

Call when you say you are going to call. Just don’t let another woman’s son or daughter sip endlessly to cold coffee as you claim to be stuck in traffic when indeed you are with someone else.
Just don’t play games with other people’s feelings and time. These things can come back to bite you.

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