THE MARRIAGE INSTITUTION


One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter.
Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:
PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that aligns with your values and beliefs, the one who you meet at your life's journey.
POSITION
All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have children's sizes, young people's sizes and the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club.
PERCEPTION
In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe before you buy. This is why it is important to seek guidance and counseling from people who have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing people to the right shoes (Pastors and Relationship Coaches). And most importantly to avoid much time wasting, simply consult the SHOE MANUFACTURER to tell you your size (GOD ALMIGHTY).
"You do not prepare for wedding only, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend weddings and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy.
Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?
Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it. Ask questions like:
- Where is this shoe made from? (Background).
- What's the size (Values).
- How much (His/Her interest).
- How long will it last (His/Her Character).
- Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith. This is compatibility).
- Will it match me? (This is whether he/she loves you and will accept you the way you are).
"You do not prepare for wedding only, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend weddings and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy.
Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?
Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it. Ask questions like:
- Where is this shoe made from? (Background).
- What's the size (Values).
- How much (His/Her interest).
- How long will it last (His/Her Character).
- Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith. This is compatibility).
- Will it match me? (This is whether he/she loves you and will accept you the way you are).