How to know when she's ready for a KISS?

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Kissing her

As soon as you begin praying and liking someone, the first thing to do is speak to your pastor let him direct you because remember his direction comes straight from God.

As you are getting into this relationship and you have been dating your partner for a while now, more or less about a month or two maybe three, depending on your situation, you should go and speak to your pastor and let him know how things have been going and tell him what you think about your partner. Is she spiritual? Is she what you’re looking for in a woman of God? tell him everything that has been going on in your relationship, don’t waste time, just let him know the basics, the main point on what the two of you have been talking about. where you have been taking her out too, and so on. Let the pastor know exactly how you feel about her. If you think it is the appropriate time and you feel as if she is ready, ask the pastor if this would be an appropriate time to kiss her. But if you are in constant communication with the pastor, you won’t even need to go to the pastor and ask when the appropriate time to kiss your girl is, he will be directing you daily into this relationship. But don’t be anxious.

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.” Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

Take your time, get to know your lady, make her comfortable to be around you and visa versa. Make sure she’s still not nervous because imagine trying to give her a kiss when she’s still nervous to even hold your hands.... Think about it

Use this time wisely to make your lady comfortable, make her comfortable enough to laugh in front of you, to eat in front of you, to stare you straight in the eyes without being shy. Be smooth and work your way to her heart, win her over. Make her melt every time she hears your name, be such a gentlemen that she can’t resist. In addition, continue working with your pastor to find the appropriate time to kiss her.

Take your time, one step at a time, don’t try to rush things. Don't act all desperate, because God does not work like that, he does not bless when you are anxious. There is a time for everything. 

Communicate with your pastor and when you think the two of you are ready, ask your pastor if its the right time to kiss her. But until then work on your relationship so the two of you aren’t nervous anymore and are comfortable with each other.

Your pastor or bishop should always be involved in your relationship, from the beginning. After God, he should have been the first to know that you have been praying for God to bless your sentimental life. And to know that you are looking for someone.

After you meet your partner, stay in communication with your pastor and his wife, let them know how everything is going and seek more guidance, if you have any questions you may ask your pastor or his wife.

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