Are you a side chick? You need to read this


Are you a side chick? You need to read this

I AM a 25-year-old woman who is a side chick. I know that people see side chicks as these evil women who are trying to steal people’s husbands, but I have no such intentions. I’m an independent career woman with a very busy life. And honestly, I was just not finding a man who fits into my lifestyle until I met this man. He is a bit older, wiser, a great mentor and he just gets me. Most importantly, he doesn’t make unreasonable demands on me. I have lots of time to pursue my business and be with my friends. I can do all these without being policed and asked where I am all the time. This man has given me advice and guidance on setting up my business. I make my own money, so this is not even about money. It’s just good to know that I have somebody I can talk to when I have challenges and celebrate with when I have victories. And of course, we have amazing sex.

Am I so wrong?

I MUST admit that you make some strong and compelling arguments. And a lot of what
you are saying makes sense. However, let us consider the other side of the coin. I would be doing you a disservice if I didn’t put all of this out there for you. Firstly, consider the impact of your existence on the family unit. Whatever time he might be spending with you, is the time he should be giving to his wife and his children. With all the work pressure that we all face, time is such a valuable commodity. So much so that every minute that he is spending with you, is the time that he could be sharing with his family or going to his children’s school concerts. So, in effect, you are actually stealing from his family.
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