From My Boss To My Boyfriend and Now My Enemy


I am 26. I met this guy at my former place of work before we both changed jobs. He was my direct boss.

I liked him a lot and he showed me he liked me also but we never dated. After we both changed jobs, we decided to establish a relationship. I was so happy because I thought he was my last bus stop. Things went well until I decided to spend my first weekend at his place.

On Saturday of that weekend, he told me he was going to a wedding but wanted me to stay at home. I wasn’t too happy that I wasn’t going but there was nothing I could do. He promised not to stay long.

At the end of the day, he got back at 11.30 pm, drunk. I was surprised cause I didn’t even know he drinks, let alone getting drunk. In less than 10 mins, he started throwing up and messed up everywhere. I was so pissed but because I loved him, I cleaned him up and cleaning up everywhere while he went to sleep, snoring.

After doing that, I went through his chat and even got angrier when I discovered that he was involved in another relationship. I then decided to change his WhatsApp profile photo to my picture just to make any other girl jealous. When he woke up, I reported myself so he won’t find out for himself. Oh, he flared up, became very aggressive and asked me to leave his house.

I begged and begged and begged but to no avail. He even almost beat me up in the process. I cooked, he refused to eat. After a while, he asked me to get the food. I was happy thinking his temper had cooled. After our meal, I fell asleep, only to wake up at 7 p.m. I went to meet him and tried to apologize again.

But he insisted I must leave his house. I begged him to let me stay till morning because my house is quite far from his and he knows, but he said No. When I saw that my plea was not getting anywhere, I packed my things and left his house around 9 p.m.

Since I left, he has refused to pick my calls or reply my text messages and has blacklisted my number from calling him. I contacted one of his friends who told me that another woman whom he loves and he was going to marry dumped him after everything. They were planning a wedding and I didn’t know. He told me that since then, women now disgust him.

I love him so much but I honestly don’t know what to do at this point. Please, I need your advice.
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