I don't know if I was sexually assaulted, I just don't know what to think!


Black woman sexually assaulted
I'm 19 and for my whole life, there is this man who once worked with my father and he is a very close family friend. The man family friend is in his 60s and I always saw him as a grandfather figure. I would see him and his wife once a year for a week and they became like family.

However, last night he visited us for election holiday, My parents went to sleep early and I was left just him and I awake to watch the election result tallying. I was lying on the couch and he was on the other side. He began rubbing my shoulders which weren't weird since he had done that before. However, he started going under my shirt on my back. Then pulled up my shirt and rubbed my back. He unclipped my bra and started rubbing oils on it. I laid there confused because I couldn't imagine him thinking of me in a sexual way. His hand began slipping beneath my waistband onto my butt. He would get close to my chest but never touched it cause I was lying on it. This went on for an hour. I couldn't move because I didn't know what to do or what was really happening.

The next morning he apologized and said he crossed a line. This just made me realize what he did was wrong. I didn't tell anyone and I don't know if it was a big deal or if I'm making it bigger than it was. Also if he will visit next time I think I'll be uncomfortable so I don't know if I'll ever view him as I used to... I just don't know what to think
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