My cousin is sleeping with her biological father


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Yes, you read my title correctly. We just recently discovered my 20-year-old younger cousin has been sleeping with her biological father for quite some time now and it has literally made everyone in the family sick to their stomachs and one of her siblings tried to commit suicide over the whole thing.

Background information on how this “thing” started. Last year after my cousin discovered the man she was raised to believe was her father was not the biological father. The family knew, and it was basically an open secret amongst many members of the family.

When the shit hit the fan early last year my cousin's mom eventually had to come clean and admit that she had an affair years ago which resulted in her getting pregnant and she passed off her daughter as her husband's child. Her husband had accepted and raised my cousin as his own, even though he knew the truth. Throughout the years he and my cousin had a very strained relationship. As my cousin got older it became very apparent that she looked extremely different from her siblings and she started to ask why. Towards her senior year in high school last year, her relationship with her dad became so strained that they eventually stopped talking to each other in the house.

Anyways, fast forward to early last year when my cousin met and immediately bonded with her biological father. She started hanging out with him often & sharing with daily calls with him. He also started spending lavishly on her, which she lapped up. Then it became as if her whole world revolved around him. She was constantly posting him on social media calling him the love of her life and how happy she was about finally knowing him.

As a family, we were happy for her! The truth has finally come out, but it came at a great cost. Her mom and father eventually separated because the truth came out that my cousin's mom never really stopped messing around with my cousin's biological father. After all of these years, her husband left her and they are in the process of getting a divorce now.

Based on her behavior and some of the conversations she shared with me that she had with her biological father, I started to suspect that she had a crush on her father. Well.....my suspicions were correct and then some. There was never a time that I wish that I was wrong about something as this time. But my cousin has been having a full blown affair with her biological father that started around last year. She made the mistake of giving her old phone to her younger brother and he recently discovered explicit pictures, videos, and messages between them on her.

It's beyond disgusting and as a family, we're just shattered. I spent the whole day crying about this yesterday cause I can't believe she would do something like this. Yes, I know genetic sexual attraction is a real thing but I just didn't think this would happen and SHE would do this. She tried to lie at first about it and now she basically been blocking everyone who tried to call her. I'm just at a loss of what to say, or if I can even look at her the same anymore. We're extremely close and always have been and I feel so betrayed that she didn't think to come me about this. I'm not mad her because she's a little girl lost and she's seeking out love in the wrong way but I just don't know what to say here.

As far as her biological father is concerned, the more I found out about him, the more disturbed I am. He has kids sprinkled around and currently has a young woman in her twenties pregnant for him. He’s also in the education field and I highly suspect that he's done this before.

Anyways I'm writing this not really to get advice but more as a stress reliever. This whole thing just been killing me inside these past few days and I'm just at a loss, to be honest. 😐😐😐
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