Woman dressing her husband

One sunny Saturday, my sister in law cried to me and said my brother told her – ‘’please go and rekindle the spark, work on yourself and reinvigorate yourself’’, ‘’I need the woman I fell in love with ten years ago’’. I watched her cry and couldn’t understand her pain.

You love your guy. He loves you. But do you wonder if he still wants you like he did when your romance was new? After you pull out a bunch of these tricks, he sure as hell will.

I did some research and stumbled upon some interesting tips which she also adopted and it's working like magic for her;

1. Go more natural.

Believe it or not, as fun as it is to get all dolled up for your guy, one of the best ways on how to make him want you more is to go more natural. Use fewer hair products, don’t wear crazy makeup, and don’t feel like you have to wear makeup all the time around him. He wants to see that natural side of you except you have a night date keep the makeup down.

2. Don’t try too hard.

Don’t overdo it as it may become irritating or a pain, go gentle and subtle on him. It’s the little things that matter in life.

3. Don’t call him first.

Many women find this difficult, as they want to know what and where he is. Ignore his calls, as a matter of fact, let him be the one to wonder what you are up to, this way he would miss you and come through at you.

4. Be Confident.

A man craves for a woman with 100% charisma and grace. If you are not confident of yourself, it may be hard for you to get him back as there may be some other lady who has got this attribute which you lack.

5. Expectation.

While you do this, have zero expectation so there is no disappointment. High hopes can be brought down by him not noticing you and your plans, so have it at the back of your mind that this may not work.

6. Make small changes.

Your hair is usually your first option, change color, style, and length of hair will be fine, hopefully, whatever choice you make will suit you and he will notice. Makeup, accessories, dress sense are secondary and can also be worked upon.

7. Space.

Men want what’s out of their reach. If you’re not available to him 24/7 and you have an active life outside the relationship, he has time to miss you.

8. Delayed Gratification.

This makes your man fantasize about you more. When you tease him with sexy text messages or the promise of sex, his imagination runs wild.

9. Perfume.

Biologists believe the reason your odor turns him on is that smell is one of the most primitive senses, so wear the right perfume to make him attracted to you.

10. Surprise.

Variety is the spice of life. Throw something new, spicy, juicy and hot into the relationship and see how excited your man will be

Geoffrey Nevine — IT Services and IT Consulting

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