Ways to beat anxiety and become physically and mentally strong

Man with anxiety disorder


My depression and anxiety really have taken a toll on my fitness this past year. I’ve been battling depression for 4 years but it’s gotten to its worst point this past year. I am at my best when I’m working out and eating right. However, I’ve worked out about 5 times the entire year. It’s not me. Right now I do not feel like myself. I have the motivation and the desire to feel good (I love the feeling working out) but I get really anxious before I’m about to go to the gym and I end up just staying home. Laying down, feeling terrible about myself. It’s a never-ending cycle. I’m very organized and I schedule times to workout during the day but I never go because I get too anxious. I think my depression fuels this too because I end up feeling tired and sad all the time, and choose not to work out. I motivate myself to go every single day, but just before I go, I get really anxious and just find a reason to not go. This has taken a serious toll on my physical health and well-being. Motivation just doesn’t seem to do the trick. I simply just cannot go to the gym anymore. Now I not only feel terrible but also don’t look good. I am also happier when I look healthy and fit but I just can’t seem to overcome this.




Ways to beat anxiety and become physically and mentally strong.





Do you have anxiety? Have you tried just about everything to get over it, but it just keeps coming back? Perhaps you thought you had got over it, only for the symptoms to return with a vengeance? Whatever your circumstances, science can help you to beat anxiety for good.



Anxiety can present as fear, restlessness, an inability to focus at work or school, finding it hard to fall or stay asleep at night, or getting easily irritated. In social situations, it can make it hard to talk to others; you might feel like you’re constantly being judged or have symptoms such as stuttering, sweating, blushing, or an upset stomach.



It can appear out of the blue as a panic attack when sudden spikes of anxiety make you feel like you’re about to have a heart attack, go mad or lose control. Or it can be present all the time, as in generalized anxiety disorder, when diffuse and pervasive worry consumes you and you look to the future with dread.



Most people experience it at some point, but if anxiety starts interfering with your life, sleep, ability to form relationships, or productivity at work or school, you might have an anxiety disorder. Research shows that if it’s left untreated, anxiety can lead to depression, early death, and suicide. And while it can indeed lead to such serious health consequences, the medication that is prescribed to treat anxiety doesn’t often work in the long-term. Symptoms often return and you’re back where you started.



How science can help




The way you cope or handle things in life has a direct impact on how much anxiety you experience – tweak the way you’re coping, therefore, and you can lower your anxiety levels. Here are some of the top coping skills that have emerged from our study at the University of Cambridge, which will be presented at the 30th European Congress of Neuropsychopharmacology in Paris, and other scientific research.



Do you feel like your life is out of control? Do you find it hard to make decisions – or get things started? Well, one way to overcome indecision or get going on that new project is to “do it badly”.



This may sound strange, but the writer and poet GK Chesterton said: “Anything worth doing is worth doing badly.” And he had a point. The reason this works so well is that it speeds up your decision-making process and catapults you straight into action. Otherwise, you could spend hours deciding how you should do something or what you should do, which can be very time-consuming and stressful.



People often want to do something “perfectly” or to wait for the “perfect time” before starting. But this can lead to procrastination, long delays, or even prevent us from doing it at all. And that causes stress – and anxiety.



Instead, why not just start by “doing it badly” and without worrying about how it’s going to turn out. This will not only make it much easier to begin, but you’ll also find that you’re completing tasks much more quickly than before. More often than not, you’ll also discover that you’re not doing it that badly after all – even if you are, you can always fine-tune it later.



Using “do it badly” as a motto gives you the courage to try new things, adds a little fun to everything, and stops you worrying too much about the outcome. It’s about doing it badly today and improving as you go. Ultimately, it’s about liberation.



Forgive yourself and ‘wait to worry’




Are you particularly critical of yourself and the blunders you make? Well, imagine if you had a friend who constantly pointed out everything that was wrong with you and your life. You’d probably want to get rid of them right away. But people with anxiety often do this to themselves so frequently that they don’t even realize it anymore. They’re just not kind to themselves.



So perhaps it’s time to change and start forgiving ourselves for the mistakes we make. If you feel like you’ve embarrassed yourself in a situation, don’t criticize yourself – simply realize that you have this impulse to blame yourself, then drop the negative thought and redirect your attention back to the task at hand or whatever you were doing.



Another effective strategy is to “wait to worry”. If something went wrong and you feel compelled to worry (because you think you screwed up), don’t do this immediately. Instead, postpone your worry – set aside 10 minutes each day during which you can worry about anything.



If you do this, you’ll find that you won’t perceive the situation which triggered the initial anxiety to be as bothersome or worrisome when you come back to it later. And our thoughts actually decay very quickly if we don’t feed them with energy.




Find purpose in life by helping others




It’s also worth considering how much of your day is spent with someone else in mind? If it’s very little or none at all, then you’re at high risk of poor mental health. Regardless of how much we work or the amount of money we make, we can’t be truly happy until we know that someone else needs us and depends on our productivity or love.



This doesn’t mean that we need people’s praise, but doing something with someone else in mind takes the spotlight off of us (and our anxieties and worries) and places it onto others – and how we can make a difference to them.



Being connected to people has regularly been shown to be one of the most potent buffers against poor mental health. The neurologist Viktor Frankl wrote: For people who think there’s nothing to live for, nothing more to expect from life … the question is getting these people to realize that life is still expecting something from them. Knowing that someone else needs you makes it easier to endure the toughest times. You’ll know the “why” of your existence and will be able to bear almost any “how”.



So how can you make yourself important in someone else’s life? It could be as simple as taking care of a child or elderly parent, volunteering, or finishing work that might benefit future generations. Even if these people never realize what you’ve done for them, it doesn’t matter because you will know. And this will make you realize the uniqueness and importance of your life.


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